It's 3 AM. Woke up in a panic attack, thought I heard my daughter sneaking out. Please help.?

You seem to be worrying about the wrong things, if supposedly your husband isn't worried or listening, have you heard the old saying: IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LISTEN, THEN YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO FEEL?In other words, your husband is blind when it comes to your daughter,he's only seeing what he wants to see(good,bad or indifferent), and what you can do to these boys that keeps meeting your daughter, and the one who had with her(SEND THEM TO JAIL),its against the law for any age man/ boy tomess around with a child! As far as your daughter sneaking out,[I had the same problem w/ my daughter, this is what I did, might work for you], I waited until she left, got in the car followed her, used my phone called the police told them what my daughter of13 yrs. had did, told them where I was, as far as following her, they took over where I was, and sent me back home, but kept informed where they found her, what she was doing,and all of that, they ask if they could put a scare into my daughter, I said yes they could, so they went in the residence where she was(smoking,drinking, the plice put cuffs on her, and the person who gave her alcohol, took her to the station, she had one call, you guessed she called me, I went down to the station, they said they were going to keep her over night, that I could come & get her tomorrow, and Chris(my daughter) sit in (the drunk tank)but she didn't know that, until morning! The officers told her if she sneaked out again, they were going to throw the book at her for being unruly, and a run-away.It cured her, maybe it will do the same for yours too!Because one of these times you're going to have a panic attack that will in turn put you into a heart attack, that you may not walk away from! So, just try that,If nothing else, go to your police station talk to the captain of the force, ask him if you and them can do that to your daughter too? It stopped Chris from sneaking out, and for the first time I could finally get a good night's sleep, because she knew full well, if she sneaked out again, and they caught her, she would be in alot of trouble!And no, you shouldn't have to stay home, by all means go out with your friends!The police could also get your husband to thinking straight about your daughter as well.!