HELP with my Ex-Girlfriend?

Wow, this is a real mess. But I think the best advice someone could give you, is to just give her time to think and stop going to her games so she won't feel like you're invading her... space, I guess you could call it. Just let the chips fall where they may, give her time, and then maybe in about a month or two, try to talk to her again. She probably just needs to get stuff off of her mind so just leave her alone for a while is the best thing I would say to do. Plus, you'll also have more time to think and reapproach how things are... I guess/