Which guy should i chose?

Love is a very tricky thing. Sometimes love makes us do the weirdest things..things u never thought you could do. Well, if I were in your situation, I would pick none. Its obvious that you do not know what you are looking for in a relationship. What if you chose this second guy, and u still feel that you are missing the "spark" ? Then, what? Go back to the first? I dont think that is fair. You should figure out first what you really want in a guy and in the relationship before starting one. This will save a lot heartache and pain for both you and the guy.