How does anyone know if a person is compatible with them for life?

People jump into marriage for all the wrong reasons and that is why people divorce. Make sure that you are friends first. It's important for every man to see his woman being "real" and vice versa. This process should take atleast a year. You also need to ask yourself if you will still love that person without legs, if they were stricken with a deadly disease, or if another body part was to come off. These are the most important things to ask yourself. Also you need to know if that person would take care of you when you are sick and pick of the slack for the bills. This too is vice versa. Basically, you are out there looking for a person who is everything you wish you were. Good luck.